Every healthy man gets excited several times faster than a woman. For most, a quick glance at the naked body is enough to induce an erection and subsequent intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people who perceive kinesthetic type information from the outside. They have to touch everything, feel it physically, to process and accept it with their brains. If your partner likes touch and it's the most exciting thing, then he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with increased tactile needs will not refuse the sight of a beautiful girl, but the arsenal should include stimulating techniques with hands and other parts of the body!
It is a misconception that only the female half needs foreplay. Men also love love and don't mind prolonging their pleasure to relax physically and psychologically. And there are no fewer erogenous points on a strong torso than on a beautiful maiden. For a quality erotic session, you will need knowledge of sensitive areas, so let's enrich our package with seductive techniques. Today we will learn how to excite a man with our hands and learn how to push all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them correctly
Erogenous zones are the areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and effects. Their stroking increases arousal and erection. Over time, you learn to identify not only the general male erogenous zones, but also the individual zones of each guy, which gives you power over the stronger sex. A man simply goes crazy when a girl caresses him as if reading his innermost thoughts at that very moment! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the area of the penis and scrotum. Most men find pleasure in having women's hands run through their hair. No less pleasant is the tenderness when you touch the palm of your hand to your face, eyebrows and chin. With outstretched fingers, stroke your hair so that it falls between them, and pull the ends along your face. You can complete the action with gentle kisses on the earlobe. It's not the touch of the lips that excites me the most, but the warm breath, which is very clearly perceptible.
Neck
For men, this part of the body is ideal for arousing passion with the hands. The most sensitive area is the strip of skin from the earlobe to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and follow it up with kisses. You can use tongue caress if your partner responds positively to such stimuli.
The line from the beginning of hair growth to the area between the shoulder blades is the runway. This is where the hot trips start, indicating that the lady will soon go down and become a "head". .
Back
On the back, in order to properly arouse a man with your hands, you need to touch several points:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular zone,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
These "accumulators" of lust can be stroked with your fingertips, with your hair, and some girls know how to effectively influence them with their breasts. Men are very turned on by the touch of female nipples on their backs.
For many guys, hugging from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially on a completely naked female body.
If everything is fine with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely blatant provocation - caress the back of the sacrum (around the tailbone) with your pussy. Just remember that after a few seconds, the guy will be unable to restrain his desires, so the seduction with secret techniques will be over. Your only option is to tie or handcuff him.
Otherwise, an immobilized, blindfolded partner concentrates more on tactile stimuli and therefore experiences sharper sensations. Consider this idea!
Torso
On the front of the body, the most sensitive points that respond immediately to caresses are the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen, which leads to the peak of male magnificence. Please note that the sensitivity of male nipples is slightly different from that of girls, so do not pull them with the same intensity. Some people find such stimulation unpleasant, so we purr like cute tigers and panthers and listen to the wishes of our seduced object. Many people like it when a girl sits on top of them and runs her palms along their chest and stomach.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not erogenous zones, but a light massage of the central part helps ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. In contrast, the hands have several very sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow, or rather the inner crease of the arm, is a place where it is particularly sensitive to light touches. More brutal tactics go unanswered. You can move your fingertips back and forth from this spot to the wrist.
- The area between the middle and ring finger. Many guys respond to touch by stroking the penis.
- The inside of the palm and the fingertips are also very sensitive to the gentle touch of the hand, lips and warm breath.
Legs
Still thought that a man's legs are not involved in the excitement and only need support during sexual intercourse? You were so wrong! It turns out that the legs are a real erogenous crater! Kneading the fingers, gently stroking the heel and foot will more than put its owner in a good mood.
The hollow below the knee is another erogenous zone for arousal with a man's hand. Caressing, light touches, pressure turn guys wild.
The junction of the trunk and the thigh is full of nerve endings, which allows us to classify this area of the male body as highly erogenous. If you stroke the hip bones with your fingers, guys can shiver with pleasure.
Anal hole
Many men will not allow a woman with a gun into this area because they are embarrassed or afraid of creating an image of someone focused on their own kind. And nature made it very erogenous! Stroking the anus inside and out turns every male on. The point is relaxation. Gently stroking the anal ring with your fingertips gives the guy the right mood. If you want, you can put your fingers in her bottom and feel the most sensitive points there, giving maximum response to passionate calls. We have already written about how to do this in an article about how to get your husband to have sex with a strap - read it.
Dick and scrotum
And the main dish is, of course, masculinity! Stroking (pulling, squeezing, fingering) the testicles with your hands, masturbating the penis itself, and touching the skin in the area between the anus and the genitals can result in trickling ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly caress the penis with your hands to turn the guy on
To properly excite a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that pulling and grinding the foreskin up and down is enough for the charming feelings. They are very wrong. You need to know how to handle the penis, and no less carefully than with a woman's vagina.
Correct catch
There are several basic ways to grasp the penis.
- The traditional option is the fist grip, in which the movements can be translational "up-down" or spiral rotation.
- With our thumb, we press the head on top, the rest are located below.
- A small ring (OK sign) should be made from the thumb and forefinger, connecting them and making a fist (see the picture below),
- It will be easy to turn a man on if you apply lube on your hands first. The fist in the inverted position (you should see the back of the hand and the thumb is pointing towards the woman) should move as if the penis is being crushed.
Strokes his fingers and hands
In order to enhance the feelings of the partner, a woman should take care of the warmth of her hands in advance. With any technique of grasping the penis, stimulating the man with a warm hand, you can quickly reach orgasm. But you should not overheat the scrotum. There is nothing good about this for the guys' health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman pats the shaft with her fingers. It is better to do this by imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare your partner with vigorous movements.
A man gets a special feeling when his penis is caressed by the hands of two women at the same time. Dignity is placed between the palms without bending the fingers. We move up and down slowly and smoothly, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and making circular movements.
If your partner has a large amount of foreskin, pull it down differently: you do not need to go to the base, on the contrary, perform squeezing manipulations towards the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone - the head of the penis - is caressed, and since the caresses are carried out indirectly, there is no risk of erasure. Men with this build come out bright from such techniques!
It is important not to forget to caress the testicles. The effect of simple massaging movements not only gives excitement, but also brings health: by regularly stroking and kneading the testicles, you can avoid adult potency problems. Take it in your hand, hold it, squeeze it, pull it slightly to the side or down (slightly! this is not a wrist extender! ), then start massaging the base of the penis with circular movements and loosely touch the testicles.
An unusual caress with a nail plate, which should be drawn along the axis and the scrotum, adds piquancy and enhances the effect of the whole process.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl must rub her labia on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without entering the vagina.
Combining the suggested techniques with high-quality sucking will help surprise the man and bring him to ecstasy in minutes! There really aren't any hard and fast rules on how to properly excite a man with your hands. To achieve harmony, examine your body inch by inch and watch its reaction.
Some tips for massage techniques
We've told you how to prepare a man for sex and get him as excited as possible, but you want to make a feature that will get him completely and irrevocably hooked. Try to outwit potential rivals and find the anchor to place on it like a drug!
- Always lubricate your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movement. Swiping turns men on.
- Apply pressure, stroking, light pinching to the muscles and be sure to stop for a few seconds. This inflames passions greatly.
- Always start from the upper body and gradually work your way down. You don't have to go straight to the genitals.
- If you move to the perineum, play with clothes or a stretched towel after the shower to create even more excitement. Put your hands in your unbuttoned pants or under a towel, massage your privates, and whisper in her ear how much it turns you on.
- You can maintain a commanding tone and tell him what to do in the next minute. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative into her own hands.
- Combine strokes with each other. Let the exciting hand massage turn into a wild orgy when the young man no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of sensuality should wash over him!
- Use your chest. You can caress the penis with two palms and rest the head against the nipples. Men love to touch their breasts with an erect penis!
And the main advice is to always use the tricky Thai technique. When you have reached the main point, choose another very sensitive area and stroke it at the same time. It can be member-anus, member-bottom, member-butt, etc. You yourself notice what a man reacts to more. When you're done, move to another secondary zone and quietly stroke for another 20-30 seconds as if to calm your partner down. It should not be the most sensitive, so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over - it will do the trick.
In order to excite a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, you don't need to expect tips or requests from him. As a general rule, representatives of the stronger sex do not shy away from giving their partner the initiative in bed, counting on his playful mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experimentation and 100% male excitement.
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